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A critical mistake to avoid is TURNING INTO A NEEDY WUSS AND TRYING TO WIN ANY WOMAN by answering any or all her questions.
If you start dating a woman and she wants to know about every other woman you were seeing, and that "the openness would be good for the relationship.
I’d probably say: "Whose relationship are you talking about?"
…and then I’d laugh.
Or I might say, "I don't kiss and tell" then smile at her.
In any case, I would NOT communicate in a way that says “I’m uncomfortable”; or “I’m going to give you what you want so you like me.”
You have to remember that a woman is going to test your limits at ALL TIMES. And it never ends.
If you kiss up to a woman and give her what she's asking in the moment, she probably won’t respect you in the LONG TERM because she knows that she can get whatever she wants from you.
So, if you answer a question like this by either:
1) Telling her what she wants to know, even though you don't WANT to tell her…
…or…
2) Telling her that you disagree in a way that makes her think that you’re trying to hide something…
…then she’s going to feel like she "has something on you" and that she can get her way with you in the future.
Or she might just up and leave because she feels like you're seeing other women AND trying to hide it.
If I’m dating a woman and she asks me if I’d like to get into a relationship, and if I’m seeing other women, I’ll answer something like this:
First of all, I don’t think it’s a good idea for a man and woman to have a RELATIONSHIP relationship until after they’ve known each other for AT LEAST 3-6 months. One of the reasons why a lot of relationships end so BADLY is because the two people didn’t take the time to get to know each other first. Also, I think it’s a bad idea to talk about other people that you’re seeing during that time because almost nothing good can come of it – and I leave it at that.
Again, it’s crucial that you don’t answer a question like this in a way that is defensive or argumentative. If you do, you'll risk being rejected for being sneaky or dishonest.
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