Question: How often should I text a girl I just met? I don’t want to chase her away.
Answer: You never want to overtext a girl you just met. Most men mess this up and come off as predictable, boring or needy.
These are big turn offs to girls who have their pick of guys wanting their attention.
First of all, imbed this texting truth in your brain:
The purpose of texting girls is to flirt, trigger attraction, and get a girl thinking about you. It is not to have a “conversation.” Conversations are for the phone and face-to-face time.
Here are 3 tips to help you text with the right frequency
Tip #1: When you send her a text, wait for a response before sending her another. This is a very important tip.
If she’s an exciting and fun girl, she probably has a busy life (that you are trying to work your way into). So she may not text you back right away. Don’t get upset about it. Remember, you are a cool guy with a busy life, too.
Tip #2: When you send her a text, your tone should be short, playful and flirty… and be sure to give her something in your text that she can respond to in a fun and flirty way back to you.
Tip #3: Text her as frequently or less than she does.
Remember, less is more. Girls text much more often than guys so text less.
You control the texting frequency
Be unpredictable when you decide to respond to a text she sent. That doesn’t mean texting her at 2am. It means texting her in 10 minutes or an hour or after work , but at a time she can respond if she’s available.
Texting her in this way, gives you high value and high status in her eyes. You will stand out from the other clingy guys trying to get her attention.