Why do girls give you a lame excuse when you ask for their number?
If you want to dramatically increase your success with girls, you need to check this out now:
How To Become Really Successful With Quality Women
Girls have all kinds of “creative” excuses when you ask their number like “Oh, my number’s disconnected” or “I just moved, and haven’t gotten new phone number installed yet.”
Have you ever wondered why they make up those lies?
What’s going on?
There are two parts to the answer why girls come up with lame excuses.
Part 1: THE PSYCHOLOGY
This short story is a great example of the psychology going on in a girl’s mind.
A few years ago, I did some work with a guy that had a particularly interesting technique for hiring people.
Here’s what he did: After interviewing people for the position, he’d call back the one he liked BEST, and say:
“I wanted to call and thank you for applying for this job, but I just don’t think you’re the right person for the position”… and then he’d listen.
If the person said, “OK, well thank you” he’d just hang up and call the next favorite one.
On the other hand, if they said, “Wait a minute, I am the best person for the position, I’m sure of it” etc. he’d say, “Well, tell me more. Why do you think so?”
I actually listened to him do this live on the speakerphone one day in his office with a woman that he had interviewed. Sure enough, when he said “Well, I just don’t think you’re the right person…” she answered with “Why not? I am the best…” etc.
And, sure enough, he hired her.
The point here is that in a hiring situation, there are usually many people applying. An interviewer needs to have ways of quickly filtering through and disqualifying the unacceptable candidates. And a SAVVY interviewer will have ways of quickly finding the EXCEPTIONAL candidates.
This was a great technique for doing just that.
