Question: How do I flirt with a girl in a text message?
Answer: The secret to flirting with girls is to send short, fun and playful texts that get the girl in an emotional state.
Guys usually chase women away by being predictable and boring when they text women.
Here’s 5 important texting tips to be flirty to turn her on — and then I’m going to give a text-by-text example of a flirty convo
Tip #1: Women are emotional. Guys are logical. You must communicate with girls on their level to be successful.
Tip #2: You must create some kind of feeling in your text messages that stimulate a woman’s feelings of excitement and anticipation when you talk to her.
Tip #3: Tease her. Find something that you can bust her on. Maybe it was what she wore when you met her or something a little embarrassing she did. Use it to tease her.
Hot women get hit on all the time by guys who are trying hard to be nice. Nice is boring.
Tip #4: Be a challenge. Don’t answer all her questions. Women love it when you’re a challenge because most guys aren’t. Most guys are predictable and boring.
Tip #5: Never invite her or ask her out. Instead, tell her what you are doing on Tuesday or Friday night and suggest she join you.
Here’s an example of a great flirty texting conversation
Let’s say you met an attractive girl at a party on Saturday. She wore these really killer stiletto style heels that really made her legs look so hot. You had a fun time teasing her about how sharp those heels looked…they could be lethal weapons. You’re going to play off that when you send your first text.
You text her the next day…
You: “Hey, did the police pull you over last night for carrying those weapons you calls high heels without a license?”
This is a push pull technique where you tease her and give her a question to respond to.
Her: “Ha ha. I got home without getting caught with my concealed weapons 
”
She’s laughing, a good sign.
You: “I’m not saying they didn’t look good on you. But what happens when you take them off…are you really about 5 ft 2 in?”
This is a fun way to challenge her or qualify her and women love this.
Her: “Ha ha. That’s for me to know and you to find out ”
You: “Are you asking me out on a date? You’re kinda forward.”
You just switched things up on her, implying that she is pursuing you. Women love this flirty banter and it triggers attraction.
Her: “Ha, ha. Brat ”
You: “Tell you what. If you promise to keep your shoes on the floor, I’ll let you buy me a drink at a pub I usually stop at on Fridays.”
HER: “Sounds fun.”
You: “Cool, I’ll call you later and let you know when and where ”
HER: “Can’t wait.”
See how easy, natural and flirty that exchange was? Women love it.
If you add these 5 tips to your text messages with women, you’re weekends will be booked with hot dates.
